Hello,
I am a 42yr old single dad of 6 kids ages 18g 16b 15b 13b 12g 6g. All 6 kids are from the same mom and marriage of 19yrs that is coming to an end. I only have my 18g and 13b living at home with me right now. We are a very close knit unit and believe in spending quality family time.

I am looking for a LADY that is honest, faithful and caring. I have had my heart run through the meat grinder enough. I like the bigger things like full on hugs and kisses, but its the little things that mean soooo much more. Like as we pass eachother that little peck on the cheek or just a touch on the shoulder or a light rub on the back even just a loving smile. Those things can just make my heart melt when I recieve them and I just love to give them.

I am not a materialistic person I dont need to be spoiled with gifts, or store bought items. Its the things that come from the heart that I treasure most and consider myself to be spoiled when they happen. Things like standing at the sink doing dishes and she comes up and gives a quick shoulder rub, a peck on the cheek and whispers I Love You in my ear. WOW sorry getting shivers thinking about it--lol

All I ask for is HONESTY, FAITHFULNESS, AND RESPECT and I will GIVE NOTHING LESS IN RETURN.

I fully believe in talking about feelings, dreams, ambitions, problems. Why let a little thing sit and boil until it becomes a big thing and causes an argument. Talk it out right away and find a solution or some kind of compromise right away. Communication is a real big TURN-ON for me.

I feel I have a great but, some times a lil twisted sense of humor.

I do have a job but am not a workaholic. My job is important, but family is more important.

I love most anything to do with the outdoors(yes even in the winter--lol). Such as camping, boat/jetsking, swimming, horseback riding, motorcycle, snowmobiling(ect, ect).

I am not a diehard hunter but I do like to try to get out during pheseant season with my boys.

I love to cook and I will brag on this: I am good at it. I dont care too much for the dishes after but I will do them--lol.

I am a smoker but am working on quitting. I do enjoy an occasional drink but do not like to get plowed. I dont do the bar scene much but will go if there is an event or a band playing that I'd like to see.

I can enjoy a night out just as much as a quiet night in. I do enjoy entertaining friends in my home such as a poker night(not with real money-lol) and not just for the boys either ladies are welcome too.

I am pretty eclectic when it comes to music. I can listen to most anything. I prefer the hair band rock from the 80's and the cool reggea sounds of Bob Marley.

I just want to say upfront: I am not looking for a new mom for my kids. I actually do quite well as a single dad. I am looking for someone for me. Hopefully though if all goes well with whomever I meet, she hopefully would be willing to fill that role atleast a little bit. IF YOU ALREADY HAVE KIDS THATS OK I JUST DONT WANT TO START OVER WITH A BABY.

If you have questions about somthing I didnt cover here, please do not be afraid to ask. I consider myself to be a very honest person and most willing to share information with someone who will take a serious interest in me.

UPDATE: I have recieved quite a few e-mails asking about how many different women I have had kids with, to have 6 kids. I added that info at the top of my profile. In case you missed it----ALL 6 KIDS ARE FROM SAME MOM AND MARRIAGE OF 19YRS THAT IS COMING TO AN END. So to answer some of the rather mean e-mails I have recieved, here is the answer "I am not some kind of PLAYER WITH COMMITTMENT ISSUE'S". Thank You

Well I would through talking with her before a first date try to find out what interets she has then try to plan a date with both our common interests in mind.