Hiya, I'm 28 and live in Southend with my two very lovely but lazy children aged 10 and 12. They need a kick up the butt now and then, but on the whole they are really gd kids.

I work full time as a Team Leader for a social support company and love my job. When I'm not working I like spending time with my family, going to pubs, Playing pool, Going to Subaru meets and events, and cosey nights in ( although they are not so cosey on your own, Lol )

I tend to go for older men, I dont know if there is an ideal age but I would say 32/49. I also like a big cuddly strong bloke that holds u tight but soft enough to tell u he loves you. Eyes and smile are probably the 1st thing I notice, unless u got ur back to me and then it would be ya butt A funny bloke is always gd to be around.

I am mainly looking for friends. And no that does NOT mean F**k buddies!!! I would love to meet the guy of my dreams but I know when I tell people I'm 3 months pregnant with twins its not gonna happen lol. I split with my Ex 3 months ago. That day I found out I was pregnant. the next day he slept with an 18 yr old, a week later he is bk with his Ex girlfriend in Exeter. He wants nothing to do with them and says he will pay csa thats it.
I obviously thought about getting rid but knew I couldn't go through with it. I had a scan and found out it was twins, seeing them was amazing and I just knew there was no way in this world I was getting rid of my babies.

I dont NEED a man, I am very independant and a very strong person. But I do need friends and good people in my life the same as everyone does. A soulmate to share ur life with is an added bonus if ur lucky enough to find them x x x x

Pub for a drink maybe even lunch/Dinner if all's going well, Costa coffee, Walk along the seafront all wrapped up with coffee and doughnuts :)