Hi there all, just looking for some decent conversation and a bit of fun. I'm not a very serious person, although i do know how to listen when needed! I’m on here really because you get a good insight into people from there profiles and its much easier to sift out the not so nice girls than in being in a pub when your drunk, were your decision making can be slightly impaired!

Now for the serious bit, its contradicting myself from the above paragraph but heh im a bloke it’s allowed he he. I know how much of a good guy i am, im not a player but a family man. I am looking for the one, the funny, witty, intelligent, beautiful, secure, special, always smiling, thoughtful, kind, compassionate woman that i can spend the rest of my life with. I’m in no rush though; I’ll know her when i meet her. It’s the spark, just a little feeling that makes you think i know this person but you've only spoken a few times. You get excited with every message back or every time she phones, its makes you whistle or skip around just thinking about them. You never have to think shall i say this or should i do that, everything comes natural and you can actually be yourself faults and all (We all have them!). I know you'll all think hah he'll be lucky to find that, and you’re right but even if it takes me years I will find her.

I have a little boy and a little princess, good job, house, car, hobbies and friends. All this makes me relaxed in my approach and not desperate. If we chat and you don’t think I’m right then I’ll just dust myself off n move on, no hard feelings. I won’t mail you back being rude; i was brought up better than that. I also won’t add you to my friends list unless i really really want to chat more often. I guess im just looking for fate to intervene and change the direction of my life, but if doesn’t happen any time soon then no problem.

I’m hell bent on making sure my children are polite, educated and experienced in the world that the live. I do spend a lot of time and effort in doing this especially at weekends. Im trying to give them the opportunities that i never had as a child. I don’t mind women with children as they understand me as do i understand them. My kids don’t need a mum as they have a very good one, so women without children are ok with me too. You’ll need to like children as mine are around a lot. This doesn’t mean in any way I can’t or wouldn’t make time for that special someone; I just come with a small bundle of entertainment that’s all.

I also Dj at the weekend so would love to hear from other people that are into dance music, I’m especially into people like Pete Tong & Annie Mac etc. It is one of my passions and I’m always listening to music. And before you ask lol, I don’t dj to pull I treat it as a very serious job and take pride in my work. Which means I heard all the lines before and I’m not distracted by flirting or cleavage lol? Also you’ll actually find a lot of dj’s are shy in reality and use the decks to hide behind, see bet you didn’t know that!!

Right good glad that bits all cleared up.

Well I’m off now to do a bit of fishing

Ps have now realised im not an Alpha male lol, but what i lack in Alphaism ( hope thats a word if not, remember where you heard it first! ) i make up for in loyalty, honesty and integrity. But doing weights to get the best of both worlds! will keep you posted he he

Im easy going really, something fun and random. Dates are much better decided at the time.