i am a very loyal kind caring person , was in a longterm relationship for 10 years which finished over 3 years ago . never been married , no kids and a non smoker , drink very rarely but would do in the right company but can live without it lol . i like kids but my ex could not have any but i guess if it came along and it felt right then it would be good .i am extremely hard working and i probably work to hard as being self employed working for myself i put the hours in ,but i guess again i have no special person in my life to rush home for so if you think you are that girl /woman get intouch .definately dont contact me if you are a smoker ,by the way i dont like woman that swear so if you are one of them please dont contact me because its so off putting , i am on this site to find my soulmate and i wont get involved in a relationship just for the sake of being with someone . i want it to really feel right and if it does spend the rest of my life with that person , i am a 1 woman man i dont need lots to satisfy my needs like alot of modern men in our generation .

ON A FIRST DATE I WOULD EITHER MEET FOR A COFFEE OR A DRINK SOMEWHERE AND SEE HOW IT GOES