Guys, could you possibly give a few clues as to what you want in a woman??? It might save us being ungraciously ignored if we knew not to message you!!!!!!!

And it's so nice to see good manners are still so prevalent on this site NOT. If I say hi and make a quirky comment on your profile, I'm not actually after your sperm and I don't really want your baby and then bleed you dry of maintenance for the next 18 years. I dont even want some of your stem cells. It's really and truly just a friendly hello. Guys, grow some Kahunas and just say 'thanks but no thanks'

It says you can put smilies in your description......hmmmm what would I choose to best decribe me? If the smilies were modern day hieroglyphics then I guess this would be me



I like my own space but miss someone to have the kind of fun only a man and woman can have.......ok maybe another woman....or man.......or two from time to time (To the strange few that have made a snap judgement at this point, it's called Humour )

I adore the intense electricity that can be there at just a look, a touch. The lift that flutter in your heart gives you when you think of the person who holds your nerve endings in his finger tips. The kind of excitement that two people who are totally into each other have all the time.

I love music, many kinds, many volumes, I'm not stuck in any particular era, but you must be at least open minded musically, it's an essential piece of my jigsaw. I love some of everything i guess, but day to day listening is stuff that's about now.
Pub nights seafront days, Can often be found at the Peterboat in Old Leigh, or Halfway House Brentwood.
Beach parties in the summer, breakfast on the beach or at the Arches in the sunshine is my ideal way to start the day.
Now and then I like a club, but have to be in the mood.
I like fetish fairs, art, kites, falling on my bum trying to blade, feeding birds (actually I'll try and feed anything that moves ), and sometimes just silence. After a hard week I love nothing more than soaking up the good energy we get from nature, if we allow ourselves to take it. Re-charging my batteries in a beautiful woodland.

I have tattoos I appreciate that's a big no no for some.

I am online exactly as I am real life, I have a large real life social circle of online friends and we have some great nights out. I'm friendly and outgoing and I guess I do let my guard down pretty quick if I like someone, heart on sleeve???? maybe a little.

Although i try to keep an open mind about age, realistically if you're under 35 or over 50 we're unlikely to be a match. Other than that, if there's a physical attraction and we make each other laugh. If you're passionate and a little tactile, adventurous and open minded, we may just get on .

Physically, I prefer taller than me, athletic/average build to maybe a few extra pounds,. Other than that it's more about personality and sense of humour..... oh and the ability to pin me down I do love a little arrogance, and confidence is quite important.

I suppose if I were to sum it up, I want to find a gorgeous guy who rocks my world, and who is always in my thoughts. Someone who has me in his head and heart all the time, someone who is turned on as much by me as I am him. Someone who makes me laugh and finds me silly and funny, but can see the deeper me............. And then I want to see if I can scare the sh*t out of him in bed If I don't, then he may be the one

Arm wrestling? winner buys :) Drinkies on one of those gorgeous Embankment boat bars.